Be Your Material
Author: Steve Davis

Once long ago, when asked by a reporter if he had a message he wanted the world to hear, Ghandi replied, "Yes. My life is my message."

Whether we like it or not, this statement is just as true for you and me today as it was for Ghandi then. Our "presence" that we express is far richer and truer than what we say in words. So when we "present" our material, knowledge, or experience to a group, what we're really presenting is ourselves. Our deepest, thoughts, feelings, fears, hopes, and aspirations come through as an unspoken wave of information that others pick up at a level often below their conscious awareness. Yet this material influences others more powerfully than mere words. So in a sense, you are your material, and your life is your message!

So what if you don't know who you are and you just want to present something your audience has asked for, or that you want them to hear. And you figure that you'll impress them by having all your data in order and your presentation impeccably organized and you're just humming along right on track and on schedule--a presenter delivered from God! You can see the audience is listening respectfully to what you have to say. And your presentation is clicking like a fine-tuned machine.

Then someone asks you a question and you spontaneously find yourself reminded of a real life experience from your past, and you begin to reveal it as if you were there again--unplanned, unbidden, unprepared, but entirely relevant. When you complete your story and remember where you are, you look around and see that the audience is hanging on your every word as if you had touched their souls. They "see" you as you are--a real live human being just like them and they are "with" you. Many of them show up after the meeting and want to share their stories with you. They want to ask you questions. They know you and they trust you. You've delivered your message loud and clear.

The next time you have the opportunity to facilitate or even participate in a group, try taking a chance and share yourself at a level beyond your "agenda." Share a personal story or experience or an honest response at an emotional level to what someone else has shared. Notice how this changes the dynamic. I know you'll be pleasantly surprised.








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Steve Davis is a Business and Life Coach facilitating others to stretch beyond their full potential in their business and personal lives. He invites you to his website at www.livingmastery.com for info on how to obtain a free exploratory session. He also publishes a weekly newsletter for facilitators. Go to www.MasterFacilitatorJournal.com to view past issues and subscribe.

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